I'm shocked that this bothers women...
TURNING 30!!! I just turned 30 at the end of August.
And honestly, I'm so excited to embrace 30! I've actually been telling people I'm 30 this entire year...something my husband (@fitnessshaman ) gives me crap for daily. 🤣
Why do we, as women, believe some fallacy that there's a list of pre-reqs to turn 30??
Nope, I don't have kids yet.
Nope, I'm not a homeowner.
Nope, I don't have pets.
Yup, I definitely made an entire career change and quit my "safe" day-job at 28-years-old.
Yes, I've got an amazing hubby, but Sean isn't the reason I am valuable as a woman.
F*** what society says you should be doing.
F*** expectations! Appreciate the hell out of your life, no matter where it takes you .
F*** "I'm so behind" mindsets. I hadn't touched a dumbbell a day in my life until age 26, I have zero business experience or degrees, and look at me now!
F*** "but my parents put so much pressure on me to do ____". You are the only person responsible for your thoughts, feelings, actions and happiness.
What do you think my family said when I dropped out of grad school to become a Nurse Practitioner, and instead told them I was going to try and make money on Instagram? (mind you, I had $60,000 in debt at the time too...)
And then only made $8,000 my entire first year trying?
Yeah, so stop making your choices based on approval from others. Approve of your damn self
F*** "it's too late", you're only hurting yourself.
I'm young as HELL‼️
Barely 30% of the way through my life.
I have endless opportunities and possibilities in my future, just like you!🤜🤛
I embrace every passing year and every passing day because it brings new opportunities to grow, learn, evolve, impact, mature, connect, and discover.
You know what WILL make you feel old?
Watching year after year pass by while you're standing on the sidelines, too afraid to go for what you want...
Too afraid to deviate from "society's plan,"
Too afraid of what others might think.
How about you start asking yourself what YOU think?
You as a human are capable of autonomous thought and belief. Consider this your permission to use them