My BIGGEST turnoff...🤫 I got to talking about this in confidence to a close friend, and thought, "I would NEVER say this to my community."
For fear of offending people Fear of it being taken the wrong way Fear of sounding like a jerk But then I remembered two things: 1️⃣ Most people follow me because I keep it real. 2️⃣ I don't let fear control my actions....EVER! So here it is: I am turned off as HELL when -
People don't believe in themselves and never attempt their goals.
As a Type 1 Enneagram to a T, I feel a strong ethical injustice when people won't allow themselves to be gah damn happy. CUE QUESTIONS SOARING IN MY MIND "Don't they want to get out of insecurity?!" "Doesn't it suck going through life letting fear and self doubt control you?!" "Don't they believe they were made for more?!" "WHY DO PEOPLE WORSHIP THEIR EXCUSES? PLEASE EXPLAIN!" If you're offended by this post so far, then I'm probably speaking to you directly.... I became a coach for a reason.
To take as many humans as I can from STUCK and FEARFUL to CONFIDENT and CAPABLE. Which group are you CHOOSING to be in? Because yes, it's a choice. We all make choices every day. So MAKE THE CHOICE to be happy, to be successful, and to start achieving your goals.
